Hey! Hi...Hellooo ugh..I'm not good at these XD Ok, I do P4P, must have 1k+, you can ask me to check out your blog, but I won't follow if we're not similar.
Hi! Hmaky, I few things about me and my blog~~
1. Advice.
I do give them, from time to time, but often times, I get swamped and my brain can’t properly give good advice, so I stop. I have tons of advice on my ask I still need to answer, so when my head is clear, I go through most of them ^^
2. I get lots of asks on how to get over a break-up, this is my advice:
a) Cut him off completely. I know you might want to stay friends and still have communication, but if you’re like every girl on this planet, you’ll find one lonely night when you’ll wish you two were back together…..what to do?? You’ll call him. If you cut him off, you’ll have less chances of calling him since you deleted his phone number already. Don’t worry, you won’t have to cut him off forever, once you get over him completely, text him once in a while.
b) Find other hobbies. You probably have the one thing the two of you both liked to do. Gaming? Swimming? …other things?? Brush those off for now. Find something to do that won’t remind you of him. Before, he might be in your head ALL THE TIME, but soon, you’ll realize he’s only there every couple of minutes. And you know what? Little as that may be, that IS an improvement.
c) Close friends/family is a must. You shouldn’t have to be alone in this moment of time. You’ll be vulnerable, sad, maybe even depressed, so having someone taking care of you would be good. It’s not a sign of weakness ^^
d) Telling your friends and family to avoid subjects about him will be good too. Okay, now, by this time, you probably think of him only, like, twice an hour? Great then! :D
e) Optional, but I think writing letters to him about how you were hurt and why you guys broke up might be good. Of course you don’t send him those letters xD ! As loony as this might sound, I find it really helpful when I tell my pillow pet my problems. Here’s why: sometimes, you have so many things in your mind that you feel like you will explode. At times, you have things you can’t say to any living creature…so, disclosing these matters to an inanimate object will be good. Pour your heart out girl ^^
f) It’s probably been a few weeks since the break up~~ You still think of him? That’s normal! Alright, now channel that old crush back. Do you have this guy you thought was kinda cute? Yes? Good! Maybe going for it would be good for you. But don’t dive in head first to the abyss of another relationship though. Take it easy for now, you’re probably still hurting. Kay?
g) Good luck. You can do it :D
